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Tuesday, July 5th, 2005 02:04 pm
I have never seen a convention so blogged about.

One interesting bit was the LiveJournal specialty tip. (A "tip", to explain for the non-square-dancers, is a unit of square dance activity about fifteen minutes long -- the thing any other dance activity would call "a dance". In between "tips", usually, are breaks wherein people can gossip or get a snack or visit the restroom.) Here caller Andy Shore is spreading the word about it; here is a group photo; here is the sign-in list. (The photo was done at the beginning and the sign-in at the end, so some people don't show up in both.) More photos here.

It's wonderful to me how strongly I feel at home at a gay square dance convention. Sure, there are ways I'm invisible in that world, but they're not the same ways I'm invisible in the straight male computergeek world, so it's more comfortable if only because there's no spot rubbed raw by the poking of it. This feeling of at-home-ness -- of being among my people -- was magnified immensely in the LiveJournal tip. If there was anything I wanted photos of, from the whole convention, it'd be that group. I still haven't quite figured out why it felt so right. Two subcultures colliding? Perhaps. In any case, I really enjoyed being there.

[Oh, and the other specialty tip people tend to ask about? The no-clothing one? I didn't do that this year. The organizers were thoughtful enough to remind me that the "no watchers" rule simply meant everyone shucks down, not that you absolutely had to dance, so I could go. I was grateful for their thoughtfulness, but as it turned out I was simply too tired to stay awake that late. No nekkid square dancing for me this year.]
Wednesday, July 6th, 2005 05:34 pm (UTC)
Straight females are perfectly welcome at this convention! No worries, mate! And we have our share of older folk as well -- it's just not EVERYone, that's all. I think it'd be awesome if you came to one of these. It's in Cleveland in 2008, does that help? :-) :-)
Wednesday, July 6th, 2005 07:55 pm (UTC)
Really? So if hubby and I came (because of course I'd want to bring my dance partner), would we spend the whole convention explaining ourselves? LOL!

Cleveland is definitely well within driving distance. :-) You gonna be there? :-)
Wednesday, July 6th, 2005 08:29 pm (UTC)
If you bring hubby and consistently partner with him, especially if you wear anything resembling matching outfits or straight square dance drag, it will be assumed that you are a straight couple here for the dancing, which is fine. Happens frequently.

If you do any of the above and wear a gay club badge, or "One in a minyan" T-shirts, or flirt heavily with the same sex, you will confuse the natives mightily. (Which is also fine, mwah hah.)

Note, however: gay sd culture is not couples-based. It assumes 8 people per square. Solo dancers are not the liability they are in straight sd culture.
Wednesday, July 6th, 2005 09:02 pm (UTC)
You wouldn't have to explain a thing. Plenty of straight couples show up. (A woman and man partnered together are assumed to be straight and monogamous.) You might have some explaining to do if you start to flirt with the ladies, of course. ;-)

I don't know yet about Cleveland. I have relatives in the area (Lorain), so that'd be an extra draw.