social life

Here are a few things I notice.

- anyone who's interested in spending time with me becomes less interested once they get to know me
- the people who know me best have the least time to spend with me
- if I stop reaching out and making invitations, I stop seeing anyone (there's one exception here)

What that tells me is either a) I'm going mad, and imagining observable facts, or b) I do not provide value. (Long term, that is. Short term -- people who don't know me yet -- I think people like the tits. But long term, they see what else comes with, and it's no longer a net win.)

I have to learn how to be a net win, how to provide better value for time spent.

Welcome to the Dark Side!

Everybody, say hi to rfrench. (One, two, three, HI ROB!) Maybe he'll post stuff, maybe he'll just lurk around and friend all the cool people. ;)

edit: viewers just now tuning in, Rob is my husband.