oh, I should add that a huge part of my whining on the subject is either my own fault or just a situational badness. For different reasons in each case, nearly all my dates tend to be located at the sweetie's residence, not my own. This is, particularly when I believe that that isn't understood or appreciated, a sore spot.
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