i notice i tend to get most annoyed by things other people do that are related to things i don't like or are insecure about in myself (that age appropriate clothing really hits a nerve with me and i know i've posted about it recently). i realize that anytime something hits one of my triggers, more than asking whether or not it's something that matters, i need to ask why. what in myself make it bother me that much, because chances are it will reveal something in myself i need to address.
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