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Well spoken.
"Have to" is almost always shorthand for "have to or else [consequence]". I think we as a culture are getting seduced by the shorthand, and we're beginning to think that we don't have a lot of the choices we really do have.
"Was forced to" is a particularly advanced form of this shorthand. The consequence is not only unstated but usually not possible to figure out from the content of the message. The subtext is that the actual consequence itself doesn't matter. Any bad consequence at all is enough to forgive the action.
"Have to" is almost always shorthand for "have to or else [consequence]". I think we as a culture are getting seduced by the shorthand, and we're beginning to think that we don't have a lot of the choices we really do have.
"Was forced to" is a particularly advanced form of this shorthand. The consequence is not only unstated but usually not possible to figure out from the content of the message. The subtext is that the actual consequence itself doesn't matter. Any bad consequence at all is enough to forgive the action.
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T looked at her & said, "That's really funny!"
Now THAT response IS funny! I like that!
Hell, I think the sadder you are, the more you need fun.
Definitely. This must be one of those "practice" things. I need practice. Like I need practice at trading backrubs, and making/eating good chocolate chip cookies, and... Mmm, practice.
Bookmarked the Yeats poem -- thank you.