Stress

[cjsmith]

I just realized that Rick's impending move is a stressful thing. (Am I always this blind?) He's going on the road permanently; he'll be living out of a trailer, or an RV if he can find one that suits him, for the foreseeable future. He's already quit his job. He is now a full time hang glider.

Affecting me directly are things ranging from small to large. He currently has the chore of feeding the kitties; I would take that over. I'll miss Isis, his wonderful wonderful furrball. Utilities are in his name; either Rob or I would take that over. He's probably selling out of the house. That will be big. It's a paperwork nightmare, a logistical headache what with moving/selling most of his possessions, and a financial serious pinch.

Indirect effects may be hitting me harder at the moment though. I worry for him. I hope he will be happy. He's always been a loner, but this is going several sigma out on that particular bell curve. He's doing something he very clearly loves. That's a good thing.

Oh gack, it's 7pm, gotta go. Square dancers await.

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[joedecker.livejournal.com]

I am learning interesting tidbits about myself through this LJ medium. Latest insight - a theory I'm now
"trying on for size" - is that I don't tend to mention, or consciously worry about, my BIG stressors...

Ouch. I understand ... *hugs*