Sunburn and perversion

My sunburn is in the itchy stage, juuuuuuust starting to peel.

I am reminded of a discussion about unusual (mostly nonconsensual and damaging) sexual fantasies and a challenge to make those fantasies real in consensual ways. One guy said he wanted to rip all the skin off his lover's body. Was it the pain, he was asked, or the sensation of pulling skin off, or some other aspect that did it for him? When he replied that it was just the idea of pulling skin off, he was told "So peel her sunburn."

Who was it who said that? Pat Califia maybe? Whoever -- good answer.

Anyone with that particular urge, get thyself to Sunnyvale; my arms will be ripe tomorrow.