Ooo, you're not supposed to not visit her? That's kind of nifty. (I'm not supposed to visit anyone, By Force Of Law, though otherwise my Shelter In Place is like your current situation: groceries, medical, and individual outdoor time are ok.)
Unless we can build online/virtual connections that REALLY ARE as good as what we had Before, I hope we will fight, After, to rebuild the in-person links.
In theory, they'd rather we not visit. But it's a slightly different shape of risk than taking two buses each way to get there.
Last weekend, I was thinking that yes, seeing Adrian was an acceptable-to-me risk in terms of possible infection, and she agreed. I'm not sure whether/how much that has shifted, and I would want to consult with cattitude before visiting, right now. (Usually it's just confirming that there's no reason he'd mind me not being home a particular Friday, or yes he's happy with Adrian coming to dinner on a given Monday.)
Yeah, we're usually pretty casual too (OK if I stay at ___ tonight?) but in my area right now it's pretty clear we are not supposed to do that. So no visits for a while.
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Unless we can build online/virtual connections that REALLY ARE as good as what we had Before, I hope we will fight, After, to rebuild the in-person links.
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Last weekend, I was thinking that yes, seeing Adrian was an acceptable-to-me risk in terms of possible infection, and she agreed. I'm not sure whether/how much that has shifted, and I would want to consult with
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