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cjsmith ([personal profile] cjsmith) wrote2002-05-15 04:04 pm

Sunburn and perversion

My sunburn is in the itchy stage, juuuuuuust starting to peel.

I am reminded of a discussion about unusual (mostly nonconsensual and damaging) sexual fantasies and a challenge to make those fantasies real in consensual ways. One guy said he wanted to rip all the skin off his lover's body. Was it the pain, he was asked, or the sensation of pulling skin off, or some other aspect that did it for him? When he replied that it was just the idea of pulling skin off, he was told "So peel her sunburn."

Who was it who said that? Pat Califia maybe? Whoever -- good answer.

Anyone with that particular urge, get thyself to Sunnyvale; my arms will be ripe tomorrow.

[identity profile] hopeforyou.livejournal.com 2002-05-15 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
For you, CJ...I still have some fingernails left...Can I also partially scratch whatever's peeling? Somehow I find the concept intriguing...Where and when do you want to do this? ;-)

[identity profile] yoak.livejournal.com 2002-05-15 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you ever take a step back and realize that you've just made a blanket invitation to the Internet for anyone who harbors a sexual fantasy about ripping skin off a lover's body during sex to come visit you?

*shudder*

[identity profile] cjsmith.livejournal.com 2002-05-15 05:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Fortunately, I'm too far away from most for them to bother, and the nearby ones know I'm armed. ;-)

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-15 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
So this is an invitation to run my hands all over your tender flesh and check out your ordnance too? All for only the price of a cross-country plane ticket? Dang. I have to give my students their final exam tomorrow.

[identity profile] cjsmith.livejournal.com 2002-05-16 10:54 am (UTC)(link)
That was a really dumb answer I gave. A better answer is that the ones who'd require consent I don't have to worry about, and for the ones who wouldn't an invitation wouldn't make a difference.

Anyhow. Yeah, come check out my ordnance. I have a Colt Sporter. We could take it to the range. I share well. :-)

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2002-05-16 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Yet one more reason to want to visit you. (It's not every woman offers me a chance to tickle her trigger, I daresay. It'd be fun.)

[identity profile] joedecker.livejournal.com 2002-05-15 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like Pat. :) Good advice at any rate.