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Sunday, June 24th, 2007 02:31 pm
For the first time in my life a person with a measuring tape helped me with bra fitting. It's official: I am closest to 30G, and some 32Fs will work (though they'll have a short lifespan). Several 32Fs were bearable enough that I bought them; one 30G is on order for me and will arrive in a week or so.

Nordstrom's rocks. Title Nine does not even remotely compare. Victoria's Secret might as well be a grocery store.
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 10:35 pm (UTC)
Do you read [livejournal.com profile] djmrswhite? He wrote last year about taking his mom (who had had a stroke) to Neiman-Marcus in Dallas. N-M is another high-end store and they had the good sense to measure his mom.

You can read about it here. (http://djmrswhite.livejournal.com/181477.html)

I think this is a quality of life issue, and you have apparently discovered that in this instance, you really do get what you pay for.

Congratulations.
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 10:42 pm (UTC)
I hadn't read that. Most excellent!

I think that's a good point: for some things, a good fit is a quality of life issue. (Shoes...)

Thanks!
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 11:25 pm (UTC)
I heart Nordstrom. Their stuff is so durable and well made- I still have a suit and a wonderful pair of pants from the mid-90s that are still in good shape.

They also have an AMAZING shoe department. It's really the only non-speciality store I know of that carries women's shoes in a variety of widths.
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 11:27 pm (UTC)
I purchased some bras from Nordstrom that didn't hold up - they took them back no question asked.
(I'm still using up the gift card I got when I returned them.)
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 11:34 pm (UTC)
They seem to be a truly customer-satisfaction-oriented store.
Sunday, June 24th, 2007 11:35 pm (UTC)
They seem to be willing to focus on getting the customer what the customer wants to buy. It's impressive. Too bad they tend to be in malls, but I could really get to like that place.
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Monday, June 25th, 2007 12:16 am (UTC)
I only have one problem with Nordstrom's, and that's that the nearest one is in Providence.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 12:21 am (UTC)
Yeah, that's a problem all right.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 01:25 am (UTC)
I get a lot of my shoes at Nordy's. (I take a men's size 6E.)
Monday, June 25th, 2007 02:56 am (UTC)
Mr. Nordstrom was a shoe man, first

We are one freeway exit down from Nordstrom Rack, their big outlet store. The Teva leather sanadals I got to walk all over Boston in two years ago came from there, cheap, and they walked me (with the help of opiates) all over SF today, and have walked me as much as I walk for two years now, and are still comfy and show almost no wear.

Nordstrom has expensive stuff, but fort clothing that needs to be high quality, like shoes and bras, they're the only way.

I don't understand cheapo shoes. Either they don't last, or they're uncomfortable and I don't wear them, so in either case, they're not worth it, they're no bargain. But my feet are about as picky as CJ's boobs.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 04:02 am (UTC)
I'm glad you had a good experience: ill-fitting clothing is never any fun. I'm sure it's a million times worse for women, too. My darling [livejournal.com profile] aiglet (who also is a somewhat difficult to fit size) suggests this place (http://figleaves.com/), too.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:45 am (UTC)
*nod* Women's 5 1/2 EEEE here, before I gave up on shoes. (Maybe 5 1/2 EE. Never got many chances to find out.)

Great place. Would buy from again. A+++
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:48 am (UTC)
Ill-fitting clothing sucks. It looks like figleaves would be a great place for anyone who knows what would fit. I may soon be in that category!
Monday, June 25th, 2007 06:45 am (UTC)
If I called you "Mini-Me", would I be in trouble?
Monday, June 25th, 2007 06:56 am (UTC)
I got the bra to wear under my wedding dress at figleaves and was happy with it/them. I did, however, already know what size I needed.

One of these days, once I am not nursing for a while and no longer in in nursing bras, I should go to Nordstom's to be re-fitted (boob size and proportion has changed a lot due to pregnancy, nursing and my bizarro weight loss). Thanks for the review. I find a lot of stores don't carry past a D cup and being larger than a D it makes it more difficult to find good bras.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 01:01 pm (UTC)
Only until September 7th (http://shop.nordstrom.com/C/6008915/0~2377475~6008924~6008915?origin=openings) when one opens in good old Natick!!
Monday, June 25th, 2007 01:59 pm (UTC)
I wonder if Nordie has recently begun a push for proper bra-fitting? My mother told me a very similar story about 2 weeks ago: she's now wearing *3* cup-sizes larger than she had been.

I know that I went on a campaign to find the proper brassiere a couple of years ago (and I posted about it). Most fitting-advice is WRONGWRONGWRONG because they tell you to measure your ribs and then add inches to that for your bra size. NOOOOO. You measure your ribs and THAT IS YOUR BRA SIZE.

I went from being 36C to being 32F or G in about 5 minutes. *g* And as someone else notes, it's really hard to find anythign over a D or sometimes DD. We had to get my bras from England for awhile, from a place where they'd be $50-$60 *on sale*. (Then I changed my diet, lost some weight, and now I'm 32DD.)
Monday, June 25th, 2007 03:46 pm (UTC)
HAHAHAHAHA!! :-)
Monday, June 25th, 2007 03:47 pm (UTC)
Yeah, a re-fitting there seems like the perfect thing.

being larger than a D it makes it more difficult to find good bras.

A-MEN!! (Especially if you're a THIRTY!) Yeesh. We are *not* that unusual. People seeing either of us on the street do not think "weird" or "malformed". Why is it so damned hard to sell clothing that would fit us?
Monday, June 25th, 2007 03:52 pm (UTC)
Most fitting-advice is WRONGWRONGWRONG because they tell you to measure your ribs and then add inches to that for your bra size. NOOOOO. You measure your ribs and THAT IS YOUR BRA SIZE.

That's totally what showed up in my fittings, too. The helpful woman measured me at thirty and said I'd therefore be a 32, but then I tried them on -- a good dozen or more -- and they were all too big in the band. Surprise!

However, she also said that if you can get a 32 to work you'd better go for that, because 30 is so limiting. So I get to buy (mostly) 32s and ditch them after half their useful life. I deeply hate clothing manufacturers.

The other WRONGWRONGWRONG is most women are (raise your hand if you're surprised) wearing too big a band and too small a cup. I've known that for YEARS, but where the @#$! do you find something with a smaller band and larger cup than 32DD? GRRRRRRRRRR.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 03:58 pm (UTC)
...england, that's where! (Cananda has English underwear - might have good brassieres?)

Note that figleaves.com is an English company, btw. They may be where my bras came from too. (Bean has been needing English bras for years now.)

And what did she mean by "because 30 is so limiting"?
Monday, June 25th, 2007 04:24 pm (UTC)
She meant it's hard to find anything in a 30, but it's easy to find piles of stuff in 32. She was correct for her store, at the very least!
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:09 pm (UTC)
Thanks for posting this recommendation. I will go to Nordie at my first opportunity. I'm having a lot of trouble accommodating my weight change.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:26 pm (UTC)
Their selection is made of awesome.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:35 pm (UTC)
Glen, is that you? NHS 86'
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:44 pm (UTC)
NHS REUNION!! :-)
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:49 pm (UTC)
Do you know about http://decentexposures.com for sports bras? (I don't know if you like sports bras, but they make them in every size imaginable.)
Monday, June 25th, 2007 05:53 pm (UTC)
Yeah, and he knows Jude! I was just at her party on Saturday.
Monday, June 25th, 2007 07:48 pm (UTC)
I've been referred to them before, yeah. If I could a) try several on in person and b) get serious underwire concrete-construction flying-buttress support, I'd be so there. (I refer to the latter as my "driving over a speed bump" test. I want to be able to keep my hands on the wheel. :-) )
Monday, June 25th, 2007 09:33 pm (UTC)
Cheryl!! Whoa Blast From Past. :) Also, obligatory chorus of "Small World"... but really, the internet just makes everything smaller (oh, except all those penises, that is). I'd love to do an impromptu reunion! Having dinner with Hal (Holway) and Jodie (nee Kalikow) tomorrow night to meet their new baby, speaking of HS peeps...
Tuesday, June 26th, 2007 02:19 am (UTC)
Get outta town!! Jodie and Hal had a sprog? I reconnected with Deb [livejournal.com profile] tryslora here awhile back and now that I'm back in MA, I occasionally see an old familiar face. Are you guys still in the area?
Tuesday, June 26th, 2007 02:22 am (UTC)
Nix that, I see where you are on your profile.
Tuesday, June 26th, 2007 02:35 am (UTC)
Hmmm. Think I'll try Nordstrom, too, when they open the Burlington store.

Of course, I have an extra consideration that complicates the bra selection process: I'm nursing! :-) That adds two or three cup sizes, plus the obvious access-point issue... oh, and temporary weight gain goes with the territory, so the band size will be different from my usual. Gah. Just when I thought I'd figured out what my actual bra size was!
Tuesday, June 26th, 2007 09:30 pm (UTC)
Oh holy moly, two or three cup sizes ADDED? I'd go insane! Do you have something that's comfortable to wear now?

It's possible that your after-weaning cup size will be different than your pre-pregnancy size, right? Will you need an assortment: During Pregnancy, While Nursing, and Later? :-)

Apparently there's a store coming soon in Natick, too. Don't know which is closer for you.
Wednesday, June 27th, 2007 08:27 am (UTC)
Dangit, I spotted a catalog or something with a 28 band, but did I mail it to you? NOOOOOOOOO.

*sorry*
Wednesday, June 27th, 2007 03:50 pm (UTC)
Oh, no biggie no worries, I have to try stuff on so I'm really reluctant to go mail-order. It was hard to believe the number of absolutely-identically-sized bras I sent back versus finally bought...
Tuesday, March 11th, 2008 12:15 am (UTC)
'People seeing either of us on the street do not think "weird" or "malformed".'

We do, however, think "Boobies!"

At least we straight men do.
Tuesday, March 11th, 2008 05:08 am (UTC)
I'm not even that noticeable, honestly. I'm only a G in a world where E comes right after D and F comes right after E and so forth.

On the other hand, some straight men couldn't find my eye color even when I was a B cup. Selah. :-)