Yes, that's probably very true. So one step I'd take is setting up one-on-one time.
I wish I even knew *what it is people do* to make themselves visible and memorable. I mean, I could dye my hair purple, but most folk don't have to; what is it that they're doing that I don't perceive? If I could answer that, I might be able to pick and choose a few things that were comfortable for me to do.
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I wish I even knew *what it is people do* to make themselves visible and memorable. I mean, I could dye my hair purple, but most folk don't have to; what is it that they're doing that I don't perceive? If I could answer that, I might be able to pick and choose a few things that were comfortable for me to do.