easier on me because the attachment wasn't so strong
In a way, yeah: there's no loss if you never had something to begin with. Me, I never went through much real grief with my grandmother's passing. Perhaps that's because we weren't all THAT close; I don't know. I just had a weird almost-Buddhist-ish reaction: "Okay, everyone dies, this is her time, ah well. Hope she wasn't in much pain, and I'm glad I knew her."
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In a way, yeah: there's no loss if you never had something to begin with. Me, I never went through much real grief with my grandmother's passing. Perhaps that's because we weren't all THAT close; I don't know. I just had a weird almost-Buddhist-ish reaction: "Okay, everyone dies, this is her time, ah well. Hope she wasn't in much pain, and I'm glad I knew her."