But, Kathy, in the context I read this in, I don't think you're closed. I think you're highly selective about who you share yourself with, but I don't consider that closed. I consider that discriminating (or picky ;-)

To me, being closed is more how much of yourself you let anyone see. I know CJ gave an example of sharing more than someone is comfortable doing with her, but I see it also as being able to be open with yourself.

*shrug* I could be wrong. Wouldn't be the first time ;-)