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I get to go to dinner with a gal from work tonight!
It is a little odd to cheer about this, I admit. Here's why I'm cheering.
Two weeks ago she started going through absolute hell due to some stuff in her personal life. I provided an ear and a shoulder, at that time, and then did nothing for two weeks. I just faded into the woodwork as if I had forgotten all about her. (I've got some sh*t going on myself.) I realized that though I did care, I honestly had no idea how well she was coping at the moment.
So I went to talk to her today. I asked how she was doing, and she was comfortable venting to me. I asked if she wanted to have dinner, and she was pleased.
I feel good about it.
It is a little odd to cheer about this, I admit. Here's why I'm cheering.
Two weeks ago she started going through absolute hell due to some stuff in her personal life. I provided an ear and a shoulder, at that time, and then did nothing for two weeks. I just faded into the woodwork as if I had forgotten all about her. (I've got some sh*t going on myself.) I realized that though I did care, I honestly had no idea how well she was coping at the moment.
So I went to talk to her today. I asked how she was doing, and she was comfortable venting to me. I asked if she wanted to have dinner, and she was pleased.
I feel good about it.