You're right, I have WAY too small a sample set to generalize. :-) Besides, I was saying that mostly because I was grumpy...

{grin} you have every right to be grumpy, dear!! Actually, I only said that because I *know* a couple who are gender-reversed this way. She's always off travelling, and he sits at home and absolutely PINES for her -- can't do anything while she's gone. It's so cute. :) Of course, I already dubbed him an honorary chick years ago -- it's not surprising he goes against gender 'norms' in this way too.