You might find a guy that gives a shit ... And, on the other hand, imagine someone crying every time you leave town for a day or two!!! Talk about yer guilt ... (that's what I do to R. everytime he leaves ... I'm happy for him to get away (especially after several weeks with him off work ...), and sincerely think it's good for him, am happy for him, etc. But when he gets ready to walk out that door, I cry. Can't help it.)