1. I don't like spending a long time getting somewhere.

:-( (from the person four hours away by jet)

Actually, I agree with this somewhat. What has helped me is to make something out of the journey. Travel through beautiful scenery, reading a good book on the plane, conversation with a traveling companion - all help somewhat. Out there, where the Bay Area is bigger than people realize, yeah, I can understand that.

4. I don't make the first move.

May I have the brain back? :-)