yeah...it really is the indirect stuff that is hard.
Right now, I'm not interested in dating or sex with anyone new, which makes some parts easier and some parts harder. I mean, I don't have to worry that I'm going to blow something. But it presents its own challenges. And it is also true that if there is someone I might be interested in later, I want to preserve that option, or at least not torpedo it. At the same time, I think it can be a risky game to build a friendship with someone that you've acknowledged a desire to date...at least if the "what is a date" is too much of a slippery slope.
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Right now, I'm not interested in dating or sex with anyone new, which makes some parts easier and some parts harder. I mean, I don't have to worry that I'm going to blow something. But it presents its own challenges. And it is also true that if there is someone I might be interested in later, I want to preserve that option, or at least not torpedo it. At the same time, I think it can be a risky game to build a friendship with someone that you've acknowledged a desire to date...at least if the "what is a date" is too much of a slippery slope.