Jobs and Awareness

[cjsmith]

I have discovered, among my smart college-educated white upper-middle-class mostly-male circle of friends, that there are few people who have done anything but white-collar jobs. Most have never held ANY unskilled-labor job, EVER, including during high school. EVER.

That first sentence could also be pronounced "...among my [privilege] [privilege] [privilege] [privilege] [privilege]...".

I have discovered that I tend to have more respect for the ones who have; they read as "less spoiled", somehow, and then when I find out they once bagged groceries or changed diapers it just all hangs together. The ones who've been burger-flippers or security guards tend to be --- not always, but they tend to be --- the same ones who would have seen the alternate pronunciation of that first sentence and its implications.

What I respect is that awareness, wherever it comes from.

Comments

[dawnd.livejournal.com]

Indeed. Flipping burgers or the equivalent is a very educational thing to do. I was nearly deprived of that education. When I went to find a job after my first year of college (yes, I WAS privileged enough not to need to work during HS), the gal at the Carl's Jr. didn't want to hire be because she was afraid I'd be "bored." Well, DUH! But how do we learn to appreciate other jobs, to persevere through college or whatever path we're taking, if we aren't bored? How are we supposed to get any experience, without any experience?

[akienm.livejournal.com]

I have thrown papers... I GED'd my way out of high school a year early ('cuz I was bored), and did one semester at the local JC, done the short order cook thing, made Sale! signs at JC Penney. And I sold computers. In that last job, I started teaching myself coding. I moved boxes for Clorox, did data entry for AT&T and Pac Bell, and was a shipping clerk. I taught myself 6502 assembly, and did game platform translations.

Then I went on to doing Tech Support. I think every programmer should be made to do 2 years of tech support as part of getting a CS degree. It gives you a very different view of software.

Almost everything I use in either of my careers, I taught myself.

I think I tend to have more respect for those who fought they're way through it too.

[tytso.livejournal.com]

My father has a friend who was a wet-back. Shortly after Chairman Mao started massacring intellectuals who were silly enough to take up his invitation to criticize the government in the "let a hundred flowers bloom campaign", he escaped Communist China by dodging armed guards (and bullets!) and swiming across a river to arrive in Kowloon. So he started with nothing. My father's family took him under their wing in Hong Kong, and he studied to become a doctor, and later came to the U.S., where he obtained a biotech patent or two to his name, and he now (in addition to his medical practice and medical testing company) builds luxury condo's in Saint Thomas as a hobby/side business.

But when his son attended Columbia, Dr. Lee wanted to make sure that his son knew the meaning of a dollar, and wasn't afraid of work. So for the first summer, he made him drive a taxi in New York City in order earn his spending money. I had a lot of respect for their family because of that. (Of course later, Dr. Lee put Emil in charge of all of his luxury condo development business in the Caribbean).

So many second generation immigration children never develop a good work ethic, because their parents, as first generation immigrants, had to work so hard to succeed, and then become determined that their children shouldn't have to suffer as much as they did. If I ever get lucky enough to start a family, this is definitely not a mistake I want to make...

[wcg.livejournal.com]

smart college-educated white upper-middle-class mostly-male

Well, I'm considered smart, and I have a couple of diplomas to attest to the college educated part, and I'm white in the "grandson of Irish and son of Canadian immigrants" fashion. That last means that I was raised around men who worked very hard for what they earned. I suppose my current income makes me upper middle class, though I haven't been in this bracket for the greater part of my life. And yes, I'm male.

I started working, in the sense of doing work that brought in some money, when I was eight. Helping out in my father's garage. The first job I had outside of my family was as a stock boy in a drug store, where I restocked shelves and cut up empty boxes so they could go into the incinerator. From that I went to working as a short order cook and all around assistant in a cafe during my freshman year of highschool. Then back to working for dad when he bought a gas station. I also did janitorial work in my Catholic high school to help reduce the tuition.

Once I was old enough (16) I went to work in convenience stores (the Circle K chain) for the last two years of high school. That was an educational experience, and gave me an insight into the convenience store biz that I've never forgotten.

After graduation, I couldn't afford college, so what with one thing and another I ended up joining the USMC. I did that for the next 8.5 years, then moved over to the Reserve, got a job in a Ford dealership, and headed back to the halls of academia in my copious spare time. I was a line mechanic there at the dealership for 5 years, until I managed to wrangle enough of a Research Assistantship to become a full-time academic. Of course, some academics consider experimental physicists to be a bit blue-collar anyway, as we tend to get a lot of dirt under our fingernails along the way.

All that said, I agree with you, mostly, that having a lot of work experience which put me in the midst of hard working ordinary folks gives me an appreciation for things that some of my more fortunate colleagues just don't have.

But I'll confess I still bridle at seeing the word privilege tossed around. There were many years when I didn't feel very privileged at all, and I do have an understanding of why so many working class white men in the US feel that the deck is stacked against them.