cjsmith: (no gender roles)
cjsmith ([personal profile] cjsmith) wrote2021-11-11 10:39 am

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This Twitter post, and the replies, hit me hard this morning.

https://twitter.com/EmmettComix/status/1458534462522859526?s=20

I have never seen this side of cis masculinity. (Affirmation and inclusion are not stereotypically offered by cis dudes to persons who look like me, no matter the topic.)

I am realizing that if a friend is someone who would be supportive and welcoming about something that's that deeply important to me, then I currently have zero cis dude friends among the people I hang out with.

Knowing why doesn’t make it sting less.
amaebi: black fox (Default)

[personal profile] amaebi 2021-11-12 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
:(

Myself, I don't want romantic or sexual contact, let alone partnership, with anyone who's not a friend, which makes that not sting for me.

BTW, speaking as a sort of genderqueer person, I perceive you as *person*. Or as he tweet says, friend.