I see multiple patterns of unknowing. One does seem to match what you're describing. Another simply refutes any reports of a problem by discrediting the reporter: that person is just trying to find something to whine about, this person over here really ought to go to therapy, if it were that bad someone would have done something, it's all in your head dear, and my personal favorite, "you're making yourself sad by thinking about that". Those folks don't seem touchy or anxious.
Ah well. Humans. I shall never understand humans. I can only try to understand myself a tiny bit better.
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I see multiple patterns of unknowing. One does seem to match what you're describing. Another simply refutes any reports of a problem by discrediting the reporter: that person is just trying to find something to whine about, this person over here really ought to go to therapy, if it were that bad someone would have done something, it's all in your head dear, and my personal favorite, "you're making yourself sad by thinking about that". Those folks don't seem touchy or anxious.
Ah well. Humans. I shall never understand humans. I can only try to understand myself a tiny bit better.